The most pleasurable part of my day is walking our daughter to school with my wife. These few short blocks, through a quiet rural community, past a horse farm, monumented with astounding southern pines, live oaks, and Dogwoods all dappled with spanish moss, humbles my heart and opens my eyes everyday.
One unremarkable quiet little street that we travel each morning has become for me the epitome of the american dream. No, this street has no mansions, palatial gardens, or expensive cars. On the contrary, it is what most would consider mundane. The treasure and luxury of this tiny street is not the autumn decorations on the front doors, or the trimmed boxwood hedges, or the neatly mowed lawns. The true wealth of this neighborhood is it’s people. People who take the time to care for their yards, and decorate their houses not only for their own pleasure, but for the pleasure of their neighbors. People who take the time to smile, or stop what they are doing to say good morning as you pass. People who work and have worked hard all their lives and have prospered, not monetarily, not in status, but prospered in spirit and family.
That morning the treat of inspiration would come to me on a chance encounter with one of these wondrous people.
I inquired about the pallets and workman told me that I could have them, they were just going to junk them. They would be working there for a while so I would have time to walk the few blocks home and get my car. With that, my wife and I continued our walk home, me a bit happier and dreaming of what I could make with new material, and how the thick pine would feel and cut.
Millie showed us a small patio made from antique brick that she put in herself, using brick that she carted over from her neighbors yard. She used bits and chunks of cement left over from her driveway repair as a base for her garden swing and to outline her planting beds.
Every detail was done by hand, with hard work, love and patience, and her garden truly glowed with pride. Millie’s garden was a true reflection of her, soft but rugged, comfortable but elegant and full of enthusiasm. As we continued our tour it was apparent that Millie was and avid plant lover, what we call in the gardening business a “plant nerd”. It was fascinating to hear tales of her Iris that the brought from California, and her Castor bean and Salvia plants that she grew from seed.
The most marvelous thing we learned about Millie and her gardens, is that she did it all in just three years, and........ she is 82 years young! So I came to understand that, just like the Pine Cone fern, tucked away in the shade, growing hidden treasures, Millie can also be described with the same words: beauty and uniqueness.
That short chance meeting left me filled with such happiness, enthusiasm, and inspiration, so that as my wife and I walked home we utterly forgot about the wood pallets. When we finally did remember, and went back for the pallets it was too late, the wood and workmen were gone. This however did not deaden my spirits in the least. I realized that the gift the universe gave me on that day was not meant to be material to create with, but rather it gave me the more rare and treasured gift - inspiration to create with.
** this post was written by my husband Peter Zukof (aka "the captain")
Such a lovely post, Peter. You write just as eloquently as your beloved wife.
ReplyDeleteThanks Alison ! He thought it was too wordy. I thought it was great too. I always said he needs to have a blog too but he just never bother with social media. Thanks for the lovely compliment.
DeleteWhat an inspiration is right! 82!! I dug around in my yard today, thought to myself that I ought to make a commitment to planting or improving my outdoors each week. Seeing this post makes me think so all the more. And the pinecone fern--what a treasure.
ReplyDeleteSo glad it inspired you to spruce up your own yard. Millie has inspired us too. She is amazing. I hope to to have a space like hers. I was in her yard thinking " if I had a space like this I would be here all day creating, bird watching and spending all day". Hope to see your results ! You have such a great appreciation for the outdoors that you can make it work.
DeleteMe ha gustado mucho leerte capitán!!!
ReplyDeleteGenial este post... he disfrutado mucho leyendo y viendo estas fotos esta mañana en el autobús, cuando iba camino del trabajo.. y me he hecho pensar nuevamente en el valor de las cosas sencillas, en la belleza de lo pequeño.. y en que quiero ser igual que tu vecina a los 82, 92... 102!!!
Gracias por compartirlo... un beso